Breaks are important!

Breaks are important. As weird as this may sound, it is the actual reality. Aren't you sometimes surprisingly happy about doing something that you didn't do for a while? It is because you took a gap in doing that. When we do something very often then our mind gets trained to do it again and again which kills the fun or the happiness we get from it.
It is also very similar with us humans too. Meeting that long lost friend is so much more fun than hanging out with the same old buddy everyday. Catching up with an old colleague is more exciting then talking to your current lot of colleagues. When we keep distance for a while from people that we love, we starting craving for them. That one family member who lives abroad get so much more attention then the rest of the family and that is because of the break that they have in between. Missing someone is a genuine feeling that is often too underrated. When you miss someone, you forget all the imperfections that the person holds. You only remember the good memories, you only think of the positive side. Breaks or gaps makes you positive and you cant ask more from them.

3 ways to stay FOCUSED.

Many of us find it very difficult to focus on things that really matter. We keep on giving attention to things that don't really deserve it. So how can you stop doing that and Start being more Focused in life. Here are our top 3 ways to do that:

1.Appreciate whats good in your life.

When you appreciate things that are really good in your life, your mind stays away from the negative and it only helps you to stay highly FOCUSED.

2. Start making timetable

Start making daily timetables. If you are a mobile phone Geek then download apps that help you set targets for the day. If you are the 'OLD SCHOOL' type then make a diary in which you write all the pending things in your life. Doing this makes you more organised, helps you lessen your burden and this eventually results in you becoming more FOCUSED.

3. Stay Hydrated all day long

Drink Lots and lots and lots of WATER. Staying Hydrated helps you focus on tasks at hand and besides it has numerous physical and emotional benefits.

How to find your purpose?

Do you feel any sense of purpose?

You sure do. But you don't really know what it is. Today, we will help you find that purpose. I am going to give you 3 valuable tips today that will really get you very near to your purpose. While you assess these tips, you should really keep in mind that every individual has different purpose in life and not everyone will find their purpose in their youth. You can discover it in the latter part of your life. Regardless of the age, one should always pursue his reason of existence.

1. Read 

When you read, you come across different aspects of life and you never know you might find your purpose in the process. Reading helps you grow, it helps you to increase your knowledge about things that really matter. It helps you survive the most toughest parts of your life so READING HELPS.

2. Message from the universe 

If you really want to know your purpose in life, you MUST focus on that one message that the universe gives you time and time again. We all get that message but few are able to connect to it and believe me if you are able to connect to it there is no way you can't find your purpose. See where your life always takes you to and tells you that you love doing that one thing more than all other things in life. Go after it.

3. The process of finding your purpose will always give you Happiness that will lead to happiness of others.

When you are going through the process of unveiling your hidden purpose you will always encounter happiness in every step of it. If you are running after a passion and you think you were made only to do that, remember you should always find happiness in going after it or else its NOT what you were meant to do. Lastly, when you are doing what you love, you should always find a way to make others find help or happiness from it and if you think there is no possible way to do it then BELIEVE ME my friend, THIS ISN'T IT.

One of the MOST IMPORTANT POSTS of my life. 'EXAMS' As they are.

Only by looking at the title of this post many of you would be thinking that writing on this topic is not the most interesting thing to do but the core reason behind this blog is to change perspectives of people on things that cause disturbances in our life.

Albert Einstein said 'Everybody is a genius but if you judge a fish by its ability to climb a tree it will spend rest of its life thinking its stupid'
We judge people based on a single letter written on their result sheets but we fail to understand  that there is much more to an individual than just a result of his 2 hours long efforts on a particular subject.

'Exams' in my opinion is the most hated reality of life. It is a phenomenon that creates divide at the very initial stage of our lives. But here I have a question for all of you. Is it the exams that creates the real divide or the grades?

In its earliest forms, education was a Socratic practice of self-knowledge; an isolated act of enshrining religious traditions; or, most commonly, an informal transfer of skill on the homestead, with parents teaching children how to plant, harvest, raise livestock, or practice some craft passed through generations.
Education was pure and there was no sense of competition for any kind of marks.

But now things have changed drastically. Everyone one is running after good grades to prove his/her brilliance. Nobody talks about inventions and creativity and individuality. Nobody understands that there is a sportsman who's physical fitness is more important than his physics marks. There is a musician who's music notes are more important than his chemistry notes.
The biggest problem to this issue is that we don't have any alternative to this grading system. But what we as a society can do is to stop emphasizing and judging people on grades and rather should start appreciating people on their creativity and skills. We should encourage the younger generation to be more mentally strong and we should help them pursue their dreams because dreams gives HOPE and like I always say, as long as there is hope there is EVERYTHING LEFT.

Believing in yourself

Why am I not succeeding in life? Why are things only tough for me? Why am I like this? What's wrong with me? Maybe God didn't bless me enough?

We often utter these words while we're frustrated with whats happening in our lives and we speak them because we are always in disbelief. Not being able to believe in yourself should the biggest concern of life right now because with no or very less believe in yourself there is nothing worthwhile that you can achieve. The most POWERFUL remedy to all these thoughts is to just BELIEVE IN YOURSELF.

It is this believe that is going to take you out of all your misery. It is this believe that is going to strengthen you to fight it out till the very end. It is this believe that will make you taste greatness that you have never seen before. Look at the example of the GREAT MUHAMMAD ALI. He was great because he always said and Believed that he was. He told everyone that he is the greatest and the world had to surrender to him and accept that he is the very best. This is what only believing in yourself can get you.

To end this blog post, I would like to take help from a great observation that I have made over the years of my life and that is that I HAVE NEVER SEEN a unsuccessful person who BELIEVED in himself. 

When the going gets tough, the tough gets GOING!

There are few People that face immense amount of difficulties in life, today I have a small message for such readers of my blog. I want to say to you that I have observed this for the most part of my life that such people are really special creatures of God. I want to let you know that you really are SPECIAL and your type of people always get that once chance by nature that turns your life upside down. You are LUCKY because you will get that one chance for sure but there is no guarantee for ordinary people that are living a comfortable life out there. So know your worth and BELIEVE.

5 TIPS TO IMPROVE YOUR LIFE IN LESS THAN A DAY

One sad reality of this modern era is that people today are becoming more and more sad and vulnerable. Diseases like Depression and Anxiety are at their all time high. With the world not being able to fight these things, the least we can do is to help each other find ways to improve our life so here are our 5 TIPS TO IMPROVE YOUR LIFE IN LESS THAN A DAY.

 

1. Accept the realities of your life

Our focus is on quick fixes and the quickest one we were able to find out was that one should accept his life realities and should know that he is not the only one suffering in the world.

2. Look to improve your conditions

We suggest that you get yourself a cup of coffee or tea and sit down and analyse your life. See what is going wrong and ask what you can do to improve this current state of your life. Simple as that!

3. Live a purposeful life.
One should always seek to live a purposeful life. You should try and discover your passions that you can pursue in life. When you do what you love, you automatically start feeling happy and relaxed. Find your purpose and go after it.

4. Exercise

When you don't know what to do at all, GO EXERCISE. Because it distracts us from hassles of life and after it we are in a fresh state of mind hence we can look at things different. Besides, it has numerous physical and mental benefits that can be very helpful.

5. Relax

And lastly when you have done all the above mentioned things, You Relax and let the nature to its part. There is only so much that we as humans can do so stop thinking now and enjoy with what little of big you have.

Health Is Wealth So Respect It!

We often underrate the blessing that we have in good health. It is one of the biggest blessings of the world because you have no idea for how long you're going to have it, how much good or worse it can get, you may have to give up on your materialistic things to be able to maintain it and that you may suffer a lot while you don't have good health.

There is only one way to appreciate this blessing of God and that is to take care of it. TAKE CARE OF YOUR GOOD HEALTH. Have a balanced diet, Exercise daily, avoid junk food and sodas, utilize this blessing in the best way possible and thank your God for it. People usually explain the first three but today I am going to explain you the last two.
Let's start off with 'How you can utilize your good health in the best way possible?'. My take on this question is that we can utilize our good health by making the most of our life. How you are going to make the best out of your life is by doing what you love doing. If you love acting, go make a portfolio today. If you love singing, go and record your first song this week. If you love playing sports, go and join the local club that is near to your house. Go and follow your dreams. Our dreams are what makes us. Thank God for giving us dreams that we can pursue and he wants us to follow them because he has given those dreams to us. Don't come to me saying 'Saif, I don't know what my dreams are' cause you know them but you have only learned to live without them and that is the worst that you can do to yourself. I have a lot dreams and passions and writing is one of them. I made this blog back in November 2016, and just after creating it, I got busy with things going on in my life and I then almost forgot about it. It was only last week that this thought came to me that why am I limiting myself from something that I always enjoy doing and it was this thought that brought me back to this blog and motivated me to revive this blog. If I can come back to something that I started off almost two years ago then so can you.
Another way that you can appreciate your good health is by thanking your God for it. 'Gratitude makes sense to our past, brings peace for today and creates a vision for tomorrow'. This is my favorite quote on gratitude because it explains all the major changes that it brings to our life. Take out a minute right now and thank your lord for this good healthy life that you have and even if you are having troubles with your health, you are ALWAYS better than somebody.

Lastly, I would like to address the people that are facing major health issues in life, Remember that there is always some hidden reasons behind every suffering. Maybe God is making you suffer because he wants you to get closer to him. Maybe he is making you suffer because he wants you to emerge as a more stronger human being after defeating that disease of yours. So Never lose HOPE because as long as there is Hope, there is everything left.

How Life Changes in a Blink of an Eye!

We all keep on blaming the universe for the bad things happening in life while complimenting ourselves for all the good things. If this isn't hypocrisy then I don't know what is.

I have been through incredible ups and downs in life, and all of this has taught me one very important thing and that is that things can and will change without you even realizing it. Everything in life is constant except for CHANGE. This bad phase of life is not the final result of your life but it is only one bad chapter of a whole book. Remember, After every difficulty comes ease and you need to believe in it. Believing that something good is about to happen, is the strongest way to face any difficult time in life. Believing gives you HOPE and as long as there is hope, there is EVERYTHING left.

We are Back, after barely getting started!

HELLO EVERYONE! Back in November, I made this blog with the intention of sharing my life experiences with you all but I got into some personal issues and sadly I wasn't able to keep up with the blog. But Now we're back!

I am going to be posting about different aspects of life. We will together discover life and its hidden treasures. I am really excited and hope that you people will enjoy this journey along with me.
SO HERE'S TO A NEW BEGINNING!
WELCOME TO THE MISCONSTRUED LIFE.